FRANKFORT, Ky. – Kentucky's ability to offer support to victims of domestic violence is better than the national average, but there are still not enough resources to help everyone, immediately, according to a new survey.
The National Network to End Domestic Violence tracked a single 24-hour period nationwide in September.
That day in Kentucky, nearly 1,100 victims received services – but 90 could not be helped, and 50 of them were seeking emergency refuge in one of the state's 15 shelters.
"There comes a point where you can only put so many people on couches and pull out so many roll-away beds, and pull out so many sleeping bags,” says Mary O'Doherty, assistant director of the Kentucky Domestic Violence Association. “We squeezed as many families as we could in, on that day."
O'Doherty says Kentucky has a well-organized network of shelters – yet according to the research, 60 percent of the 90 victims who could not get help that day returned to the abusers they were trying to flee.
"You know, those were pretty extreme situations,” O'Doherty points out. “It's pretty hard for a survivor to get up the courage to leave, and to take her children and leave – and it's heartbreaking that, when they finally were able to make that break and do it, they were turned down."
The report says another 33 percent became homeless, while 7 percent opted to live in their vehicle.
O'Doherty says the one-day snapshot illustrates how prevalent domestic violence is and therefore, the huge demand for services.
The Legislature did increase funding in the new state budget, but O'Doherty says not by enough to deal with all the calls for help.
"So yes, we need more federal funding, yes we need more state funding,” she says. “But we also need more private support, too.
“All of our programs work hard to try to get local donations in their communities, but that's really hard to do when you're in a small, rural community."
The survey found that while nearly 67,000 people received help during the 24-hour period nationwide, the needs of more than 9,600 went unmet.
And that day, the report says two women were killed by their abusive partners.
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February is National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month, and young people often find it hard to navigate experiences of harm.
According to data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention from 2021, nearly 16% of Idaho youth surveyed said they had experienced sexual violence, higher than the national average of 11%.
D Dagondon Tiegs, bilingual social change associate for the Idaho Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence, said sexual violence is the result of imbalances in power.
"The tools that we have to prevent sexual violence within our communities is promoting communities that are welcoming of everyone, where everyone has what they need to be able to participate in their community, like school," Tiegs outlined. "So that they're not targeted and the power imbalance is mitigated."
Tiegs pointed out there are domestic and sexual violence programs across the state but more are needed, especially in rural communities. They also noted members of LGBTQIA+ communities and people of color are more likely to experience violence.
The rate of teen dating violence is likely much higher. Tiegs emphasized one of the biggest issues, especially when it comes to reporting, is young people don't feel heard.
"Young people are not likely to tell a trusted adult when they experience sexual violence," Tiegs explained. "They're more likely to tell a peer because adults dismiss the kind of dating violence that is happening with young people."
For someone who has experienced such of trauma, Tiegs stressed it is important to ask what they need and help the person reestablish their agency. They also added healing takes time.
"It's easy for us to be supportive at the beginning, but a consistent, ongoing supportive community and people who care about them because sexual violence and dating violence requires a long time to heal from," Tiegs concluded.
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As Kentuckians prepare for the Super Bowl this weekend, they can also help survivors of domestic violence.
At "Shop and Share," a one-day event this Saturday at Kroger, Food City and other regional grocers statewide, residents can shop for what they need and share a purchased item with their local domestic violence shelter.
Angela Yannelli, chief executive officer of ZeroV, explained while the primary focus is on safety, the group's 15 member domestic violence programs also promote survivor empowerment. She said donations of such essential items as toothbrushes and nonperishable foods are essential on the journey toward well-being and healing.
"Donations of things like cake mix, icing and decorations, for birthdays and other celebrations, bring joy into the lives of survivors who may not have been celebrated in many years, or for whom peace and joy may only come in glimpses," Yannelli observed.
Shoppers can donate at participating stores between 9 a.m. and 5 p.m., although times vary by location. Anyone interested in donating or volunteering can visit zerov.org/shopandshare to find the shopping lists and contact information for their local program.
Regional shelters in the Commonwealth have provided safe havens and resources for more than 10,000 women and 6,000 children.
Yannelli emphasized donations of small items have added up to make a huge difference.
"When you think about 'Shop and Share' collectively, it's raised more than $5 million since 2008," Yannelli pointed out. "And made a positive impact in the lives of thousands of survivors and their children."
Yannelli noted Shop and Share also offers parents an opportunity to talk with their adolescents about healthy relationships this month, for Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. If you or someone you know needs help, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.
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January is Stalking Awareness Month and advocates said cases of unwanted or repeated surveillance or contact, often alongside intimidation and harassment often go underreported, especially in Ohio's rural counties.
Shelby Lieber, survivor coordinator for the Ohio Alliance to End Sexual Violence, said according to the state's incident-based reporting system, agencies reported more than 1,500 cases of stalking related to 8,000 sexual assault incidents last year. Lieber pointed out the complexities around stalking can make reporting incidents to law enforcement difficult.
"Our rural counties are not reporting; they're saying it's not happening here, which we know it is happening there," Lieber observed. "Either they're not getting reported on or there's not enough evidence, because stalking in the state of Ohio is really hard to prove."
Lieber noted the Stalking Prevention, Awareness and Resource Center provides an online documentation log to help individuals keep track of every reported incident, which is especially helpful to have as evidence in a courtroom or when speaking with a first responder.
She added always err on the side of caution and call 911 or the Ohio Sexual Violence Helpline at 844-OHIO-HELP if you or someone you know feels they are in danger.
Lieber explained many survivors of sexual assault experience stalking as a form of silencing, to try to coerce them into not moving forward with legal charges. She emphasized having a safety plan is a critical tool for dealing with stalking situations and can include providing a photo of the perpetrator to employers, and making schedules unpredictable.
"If you're driving home from work, instead of taking the interstate to a certain exit that's closer to your house, could you take the interstate to an exit farther away from your house?," Lieber suggested. "Changing up that typical routine."
According to the Stalking Prevention, Awareness and Resource Center, most stalkers use technology and the internet to monitor, contact and threaten victims. Digital abuse also includes location tracking, demanding passwords and hacking into accounts. All fifty states have statutes criminalizing tech-facilitated stalking.
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