MILWAUKEE - A Wisconsin woman who spent much of her childhood at the Southern Wisconsin Center for the Developmentally Disabled, and who eventually become a Special Olympics Champion and Global Messenger, is the subect of a new book published by the Wisconsin State Historical Society.
"Cindy Bentley: Spirit of a Champion," is the latest in the Badger Biography series for young readers. Bentley says her hope is that young people will learn some lessons from reading the book.
"I hope they learn that they can also be champions and that if they have had a bad child life, that they can come above that, and to believe in their self, and furthermore, love their self, and to forgive people that are not always nice to other people."
Bentley says important things she has learned in life include overcoming anger about her negative childhood experiences, and learning to make her own decisions about her life. She says participation in Special Olympics truly turned her life around.
Although she has met several world leaders and has been the guest of two U.S. Presidents, Bentley says the most important person she ever met was Eunice Shriver, the founder of the Special Olympics.
"She believes in people like myself and other athletes, that we can do more than just be put away in an institution. We could do our sports, and we could be citizens in our city, and we could go to work and earn money, and to be accepted in our community."
Bentley still competes in Special Olympics, and just won two silver medals at the national games, as well as third place in the Wisconsin Special Olympics Tennis Tournament in Eau Claire. She has a busy speaking and book-signing schedule, but allows herself some down time, too.
"My favorite things that I like to do when I'm not competing is chilling out in front of the TV, scrapbooking, and hanging out with my friends."
Bentley firmly believes that you don't have to have a happy childhood to be a happy adult. She lives in her own home in Milwaukee with her two cats, Blossom and Oreo.
Bentley will sign copies of the book at the Barnes and Noble store in Bayshore Mall in Glendale, Wednesday, August 18 at 7 p.m., and at the Barnes and Noble in Madison near West Towne Mall on September 16th at 7 p.m.
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As siblings in foster care, the fear of being separated is daunting. But thanks to a loving family in Jacksonville, Fla., for two brothers in Ohio, that bond remains unbroken.
Despite Dalton's cerebral palsy and numerous medical challenges, brother Dawson became his devoted caregiver. The two were adopted by Robbin and Steven Brydges through the nonprofit "Wendy's Wonderful Kids," and they've become a beacon for disability awareness.
Now, at 15, Dawson said he's grateful for his parents' support in keeping them together through it all, as he continues to care for his brother.
"He is the most amazing brother a man could ask for," he said. "He has an incredible smile that will just brighten your day instantly. And I'm just blessed to have him in my life, that's all I can say. I'm just blessed."
March is National Disability Awareness Month, and Dawson encouraged anyone considering the adoption process to consider all kids - especially those with challenges who are often overlooked, along with older kids - when it comes to finding their forever home.
Rita Soronen, president and CEO of the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption, said children with disabilities or special needs - regardless of race, age, or background - often face prolonged stays in foster care or institutional settings. She underscored the need to establish a support network for families considering adoption, and said the Wendy's Wonderful Kids Program was created to assist families in navigating this journey, no matter a child's unique needs.
"Making those connections of access to networks - access to medical or psychological resources that they will need before that adoption is finalized - is critical," she said, "so that families feel that they will be supported, that they will have access, and that they can successfully raise a child in their home."
According to the Dave Thomas Foundation, its Wendy's Wonderful Kids Program is responsible for more than 14,000 successful adoptions across the United States and Canada.
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Iowa lawmakers are being asked to make changes to the income laws for people with disabilities.
Disabilities advocates are hold an event at the Statehouse tomorrow in support of House File 2589.
Also known as the "Work Without Worry" bill, it would raise the income limit and eliminate the asset ceiling for people with disabilities - allowing them to remain eligible for federal benefits.
Thirty-four-year-old Ben Grauer is quadriplegic and works at the University of Iowa. He said the measure would open the door to more employment for the 12,000 Iowans with disabilities who rely on Medicaid benefits.
"Yeah, it's hugely important," said Grauer. "Iowans with disabilities, myself included, want to work and are capable of working and contributing to society, and growing Iowa's economic base and contributing to the tax base."
Grauer said the current $51,000 income limit for a family discourages work for people with disabilities, who want jobs but need to retain their benefits as well.
Disabilities advocates are holding an all day event at the Capitol tomorrow, encouraging people who back the measure to talk to legislators and show their support.
HF 2589 would decouple the family and individual income limits, meaning an individual's income could be counted separately and not factor into the family total.
It would also remove the current $13,000 asset limit for a family to qualify for benefits.
Grauer said that would allow families to make better financial plans.
"That's certainly not very high," said Grauer. "And if we're thinking about wanting to save for your future or save for a vehicle or save for a house - which requires a large downpayment - a couple certainly can't make that downpayment based on an allowable asset limit of $13,000."
The bill would increase the allowable individual asset limit and boost the family limit to 450% of the Federal Poverty Level. HF 2589 awaits action in the Appropriations Committee.
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New York disability rights advocates are working to break barriers in numerous legislative areas, including those in transportation, housing, and employment. Another area of focus is voting and accessible polling places. A Brennan Center for Justice report finds almost all of New York's polling places aren't disability accessible - leaving them unable to accommodate a quarter of the state's population.
Sharon McLennon-Wier, executive director with the Center for Independence of the Disabled New York, said this can be improved.
"We're looking at accessible ballots, especially electronic ballots
for those who are blind, visually impaired, learning disabled. If they're able to submit an accessible ballot through absentee ballots that would be helpful because maybe they're unable to get someone to get them to the polls," she said.
She added the State Election Board should also train poll workers on using ballot marking devices. The Brennan Center's report finds in 42% of polling places surveyed, ballot marking devices weren't set up to ensure a disabled voter's privacy. Bills about training poll workers and enabling electronic absentee ballots are pending in the Assembly's Elections Committee.
In education, McLennon-Wier said proper sexual education for people with disabilities is important. Certain disabilities might require a person to have help with daily life, but she noted this can leave a person in more vulnerable situations. Providing this kind of education could help reduce the amount of sexual assault people with disabilities face.
"So, we want people with disabilities to be taught about their bodies, taught about inappropriate touching, taught about how to get good reproductive healthcare, how to understand hygiene, good health, regarding the reproductive process," she continued.
The U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics finds sexual assaults of disabled people rose 27% between 2017 and 2019. Moreover, a 2023 survey notes 48% of women with disabilities have experienced sexual assault or harassment in the workplace.
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